Who are you? No the question is not
about where you were born or who your parents or grandparents are, or
where you were brought up or what school you went to the question is
much deeper than that. I heard this saying once and it goes like this
“ It's not who I am underneath It's what I do that defines me”.
Put simple it is not where i was born or what family I belong to it
is what I do that give my life purpose me.
My life, the choices I make that will
determine what kind of person I become. Agreed our environment
plays a big part of our destiny but
after a certain time in life you are handed the rein’s of your life
and
you make the choice that will guide you
on your path. A path that will leads you up the road to success
or
down the road to destruction. In order to obtain
any personal growth a person should practice being totally honest
with there self because only in this way will you achieve true
results that will bring a relevant change. Many people lie to
themselves then they wonder why nothing changes, why they cant lose
weight or why they cant finish a task, the problem is that their
foundation is unstable and they are doomed to fail before they even
start. So honesty is the best policy and a self assessment the best
place to start. My point is, we all have philosophy's that we use in
our day to day choice's, which we use to determine action's which
cause's result. So in using the self-assessment tool the goal is to
improve redefine or adjust your philosophy that will bring the
desired result. Also a good thing to remember is that many time's you
cant change the circumstance of a given situation or problem, but you
can control yourself and the way you react or act to a problem and
this starts with your mental state, you philosophy's your morals and
ethics. These tool are not set in stone but just a few that can be
used to point a person to the path of self accomplishment. Also you
must realize that knowing which path to take is much different than
actually walking it. Knowledge only has power when the instruction is
put to some useful purpose to perform a needed task.
Therefor you must recognize that what
matters is not what you should have done but what you do now that
makes the difference and the best was to make effective change is to
identify the problems or short comings, this will take some tools.
When my uncle was teaching me how to do some minor repairs to my car
when I was younger he would always tell me the right tool for the
right job, so I think the right tool for us to begin our character
tune-up should be the “Self Assessment tool “ . There are all
kinds of self assessment tool out there but the one I am going to
give you is for the sole purpose of the the individual to decided
where they are in life, where they want to be in life and help you
figure ways to get there. It is up to you and no one else. Remember
this you can't always change the situation's you will face or peoples
attitudes or even human nature but you can control the way you react
to it thereby having a hand on the wheel of your destiny.
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