WORDS OF WISDOM

 You know it's one thing I learned in life some people will pretended to be your friend and betray you, some will let you know right from the start that they may not like you but in the end you may find some common ground. But by far the worst are those who may smile in your face and even give you words of encouragement but underneath it all they do every thing can to never let you get ahead in life.

People say all kinds of stuff but they just never let you get ahead. And when you go to them and say, "hey jean I hit the lottery for $1.000 and you see how red their ears turn or a sudden expression of anger then they calm themselves, you better take notes. That is an undercover hater.

What is an under cover hater you may ask? that is a person who do have the courage to come right out and hate on you, they just do all kinds of jealous stuff and throw stumbling blocks in your path to make you fall so they can point out you faults to everyone else.

You have to identify who these people are and cut them as soon as possible or they will pull you down like a drowning man.

And when you do have fun and look extra good waving see you later sucker...

NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING

 

I was a slightly bigger kid growing up, a little fatter and a little taller. So every body expected me to play sports, wrestle, football, basketball all the jock stuff so I gave it all a try and I ended up being average at best. You know what I excelled at, music, art, choral arts. 

When it was time for me to leave home and get my own place and move in with my fiancé, my whole family turned against because they expected me to stay home and take car of my mother. she wasn't sick just single.

Fast forward. I'm working as a maintenance man and I go in this old with ladies apartment to fix her toilet and she calls the rental office to ask the who I am and how long I have been working there after I explain it to her three time, yeah I thought it was raciest to. then I just chalked it up to ignorance.

People will always assume what they want just from appearances, and the way they were brought up. All you can do is stand strong, state your case and keep on moving, forget them. They not worth your time, life is to short to worry about it.

Strengthen Up and Fly Right

 I don't know about you but I have. The year is 2021, and we are nearing the one year anniversary of the corona virus outbreak. A cotangent that not only can kill you but literally drive you nut's by forcing you into solitude. 

So you find some people think they may be of a stronger frame of mind or fortitude and venture into the digital world to meet people or what ever and get involved and become totally engrossed and seduced by someone who's only interest they have is for their own any your sitting their with you head in your hands wondering how you could have been such a sucker.

let me tell you my friend don't feel bad, your only human, we all have needs, we all make make mistakes. yes it hurts, it going to hurt own that pain and don't forget it, make it a part of you and never forget it but don't let it corrupt you and make you bitter, or take it out on someone else, it's just a stepping stone.

get up, go wash you face, take a damn shower if you have and let it out. do what every you have to to get it out your system and move on, that's the key to growth. learning and moving on to the next thing until you find the right thing for yourself or what works for you. Understand this nobody can make you truly happy but you. start there and the next time you will be just fine. I forgot that myself, I almost remembered to late, thank God it came back to me.